“Pura Vida” doesn’t make paperwork disappear, Wendy Stoneham writes, describing the complications of banking, driver’s licenses and residency processes. The slogan travels easily; the administrative steps don’t. For people building a life across borders, those systems come with the promises of a new home.
The Paperwork Behind the Promise
Nearly a decade ago, Stoneham moved from Saskatchewan, Canada, to coastal Costa Rica. She says she’s lived there for nine years and now works in real estate across Guanacaste’s Gold Coast, including Playa Flamingo, Potrero, Tamarindo and Playas del Coco.
Her account describes practical hurdles without pretending a change of scenery dissolves them. Banking can be complicated. Getting or renewing a driver’s license can be complicated, too. Residency and other administrative processes bring their own complications. Prospective residents meet those realities alongside the lifestyle pitch.
Stoneham works with buyers and sellers, and says buying property in Costa Rica rarely amounts to just a transaction. It can represent a lifestyle change, a new chapter or a long-held vision. That’s a considerable load of personal meaning to bring to a market transaction, where legal and market realities still demand attention.
She describes crossing borders as a profound financial and personal transition. In her work, she says, she guides clients through legal and market realities, along with the personal process of building a life in Costa Rica. She’s also navigating the gap between the image of a fresh start and the administrative demands that come with it.
A Home Isn’t a Community
Stoneham chose a small community away from heavily touristed areas because she wanted to experience another culture and see the world from a new perspective. She found familiar parts of life there: small-town connections, neighbors looking out for one another and a strong sense of community, much like the place she knew growing up in Saskatchewan.
Neighbors became friends. Invitations to celebrations and local gatherings gave her ways to experience local life. Her account locates belonging in relationships and participation, not in the deed to a property.
“Buying a home alone doesn’t make someone part of a community,” she writes. Acceptance, in her view, came from showing up, participating, accepting invitations, listening, learning and appreciating traditions. Becoming part of a community takes relationships, consistency and a willingness to embrace its people and culture.
There isn’t one approved route. Stoneham notes that some people find happiness in the international expat community, and says there’s no single way to experience Costa Rica. Her story separates acquiring a home from building connections around it; the first doesn’t automatically bring the second.
The Life Beyond the Sales Pitch
The pleasures Stoneham values aren’t grand promises. She points to a welcoming neighbor, unexpected invitations, celebrations and friendships that grow over time. Ordinary connections make up the community she says she found.
Her reflection doesn’t portray every day as easy or present “Pura Vida” as a fix for institutional hassles. Instead, it puts the frustrations of banking, licensing and residency alongside the social ties that made the move meaningful to her.
“Perhaps the real journey is not about changing Costa Rica at all, but about allowing Costa Rica to change you,” Stoneham writes. It’s a personal account, published as sponsored content, from someone whose work also involves guiding people through property purchases on the Gold Coast. The distinction is plain: paperwork may shape a move, a purchase may mark a new chapter, but belonging develops through people who show up for one another.
- wendy stoneham
- costa rica
- guanacaste
- real estate
- expat life
- community
- saskatchewan